Dec 24, 2011

Christmas Eve

Christmas Eve - Congregating at Moonlight Beach headed for...

Super low tide at Swami's.

Gabey and best-buddy David...

Searching the tide pools...

...and stomping on nature...

with family and friends. 
Finding a "Brittle Star"

and sharing it.

Happy as long as he's getting dirty.  In a hole.


Then home for dinner.
Cousins waiting patiently.

Traditional Mexican feast including enchiladas, tamales, Mexican hot chocolate, and guac.

The after dinner entertainment begins.

Poor Mary...heavy with child...

...and what a child!!!

Angel Gabriel watches over all.

4 beautiful girls and 4 handsome boys...all cousins...

in their new jammies...

ready for Christmas.


Dec 20, 2011

Final Farewell for Tami and Wes

The TamiWes family are headed for their next assignment in Argentina.  (I don't use last names on my blog.  So should I call them Tes?  Or Wami?)  Wes is going to be a foreign exchange student at an Argentinian Officer Training School.  (This is NOT official terminology...I'm sure there are like 20 acronyms to describe what he's actually doing.)

(Have I mentioned before that Wes's job is cooler than YOUR job?  Well, it is.  Sorry.  Doug feels your pain.)  (And yes, I have mentioned it, but I like to brag because I'm friends with a fighter pilot.  Sue me.)

On their way out of town, they stopped at our house for a few-night breather.


And some pacific ocean and beach time.  (Even though it was a little chilly.)

 It was, as per usual, very very fun to be with them.

Love this shot...!
But also sad.

Wes got to play with the kids while Tami and I chatted.
This time when we said good bye, we couldn't say "We'll see you again SOON!".


Although we hope and plan to visit them in Argentina, well...we have to hurry up and actually make some money first. 

Lots of Read-a-Thon's!
There are some aspects of military life that really sucktink.  And here we are out of the military and they're still stinky!!!
Saying good-bye to friends who are going far far away for a long long time is one of those things.


Good bye Tami, Wes, Camille, Madeleine, Cameron and Baby (Emily, perhaps?)!
We'll miss you!
HOPE to see you SOON!!!

Dec 12, 2011

How to Throw a Pot/The Zen of Pottery

Step 1:  Slap the clay onto your batt or wheel head as near to center as possible.
From my very first pottery class - age 17
Used to be a set of four.
These are old, chipped, and headed for the trash.

Last week I happily sat down at my pottery wheel with a full ware-board.  The previous week had been unusually productive.  I had a large bowl (one of the biggest I've ever made), a small berry bowl, (holes already punched) and a garlic pot and lid.
This class, I would trim and finish the bottoms then put them on the shelf to be fired.

A new girl sat across from me.  She said it was her first time using the electric wheel.  She couldn't figure out how to turn it on.  I offered to help and jumped up.  I noticed the powerstrip was turned off.
I flipped the switch.  My wheel, of all the electric wheels, just happened to have been left turned on--with the foot pedal pushed to full speed.

Step 2:  Center the clay.  Root your left hand firmly and use both hands to bring the clay into a cone shape.  Not too skinny!
Hand-built spoon rest.  I actually like this piece.

My ware board went flying.

Fragile greenware pots went crashing to the floor like Oaxacan fritter plates*.  Only the small berry bowl survived and I was lucky to keep that one.

When I taught in Misawa, I told my students time and time again to make SURE their wheel was turned OFF before turning the power source ON.

After screaming like a little school girl, I shook my head, swept up the pieces, and started over.

(The girl across from me--appalled--kept apologizing and looked like she was going to cry.)

Step 3:  With your left hand firmly rooted to the left side of your clay, use your right hand to form a truncated cone.
One of my favorites despite the pin-holing.  


This is where I keep the Dove chocolates
Why do I like pottery?  I have no idea.  It is such a volatile, unpredictable process.
Even experienced, full time potters will tell you never to get too attached to an unfinished piece.  There is just too much that can go wrong.

If you're having an "on" night, and your throwing is flawless, you still have many more chances to lose your "perfect pot".  Which, by-the-way, there is no such thing.


Step 4:  Repeat previous two steps until clay is centered
A gift for a friend.  I HATE how this glaze turned out... 
...So I'm making something to replace it.
We'll see if I screw this one up too.

{Handmade pottery is never perfect.  Even when thrown on the wheel a "perfect pot" will probably be a tiny bit uneven, a tiny bit off-center, or have a tiny flaw in it somewhere.  The key is to not look too close.}

But let's just say you do throw a perfect pot.  What next?
The next step is to let it dry a little.
     But not too much.

You want it to be leather hard.  Hard enough to hold it's shape and withstand medium pressure, soft enough that the clay you trim off will fall in perfect little curls.  Definitely not bone dry.

You cover it with plastic and put it in a "damp cupboard" for a few days.  How quickly it gets to "leather hard" depends on the humidity and how well it's covered.

Try not to bump it when you put it in the cupboard and be careful not to squish it with the plastic.

Step 5:  Drop the hole and compress the bottom.

Two little pencil jars with underglaze.
I like the one on the left.  I keep the one on the right out of pity.
When it's leather hard, you can trim it.  This is the part where you fix the bottom.  The goal here is to get rid of excess clay, refine the shape, and add a "foot" for a finished look and so it will sit flat.

Obviously, this step leaves lots of room for ruining your pot.  Leave too much clay on the bottom, your small mug weighs five pounds.  Take too much off, you can cut through and end up with a planter or a bottom that's too thin.  Trimming is a delicate, sometimes vexing, art.

Step 6:  Pull your walls.  You're aiming for a consistent 1/4 inch thickness all the way up.

A Raku piece with glaze applied too thinly.
Needed more flash on the outside too.







The inside crackled really nicely though...
But you've done it!  Your pot has been trimmed and can now be fired!  But wait...not too soon.  If it goes into the kiln even the tiniest bit damp, the trapped moisture will turn to steam, force it's way out, and in the process...BOOM!  No more pot.
And no more neighboring pots.
And the owners of those pot causalities will NOT be happy.
This has happened to me.
...and I was not happy.

But say your pot makes it out alive.  Now it is considered Bisc or Biscuit ware.  It's still breakable, but MUCH stronger.

Now you get to GLAZE it!

Step 7:  Refine the shape and lastly, trim the top.

Before leaving Japan, I gathered up all the pottery in my house.
A few things I kept, many I tossed.
The rest I pawned off on anyone who happened to stop by...
Meet my arch nemesis:  Glazing.

It seems so easy!  Dip the pot in glaze, fire it and VOILA!  Perfect pot completed!!!

Step 8:  Carefully remove from wheel.   You've thrown your first pot!   
Including our Mamasan.  She said she'd use the green bowl for her rice.
We miss you Eiko-san!!!
Except...

You can't put glaze on too thin.
     No lustre.

You can't put it on too thick.
     It'll run and puddle at the bottom.

You have to get the glaze recipe and kiln temperature just right or the glazes will be under developed.
Or over developed!
Or you might get
  pinholes/
    crazing/
      shivering/
        crawling/
          creeping/
        blisters/
      or settling-out!!!
(No, I'm not making this up.)

And if you want to put multiple glazes on the same pot, well, you're taking all sorts of chances.

Glazing is the step where I lose most of my pots...to ugliness.

Some pots turn out "okay".  But almost every single pot I've ever made has had SOMETHING I'd want to fix or change if I could.

None are perfect.

And yet, there is something therapeutic and, dare I say zen, about the whole frustrating process.  Something about combining creativity with messy earthiness with control and lack of control and spontaneity and luck and chance.  And the possibility that the NEXT pot you pull out of the kiln will be your best pot ever.

Hasn't happened to me yet.
But I have a good feeling about my next piece...!

Class meets Thursday night!  Care to join me?

Hope you're enjoying this one Liz Brazeau!


*I put some effort into this completely random and obscure simile!  (Max and I just learned about adding simile to our writing.)  But this is what I thought of when I looked down at all of my precious pots in pieces littered at my feet:  When I was very small, (6 or 7) my family took a trip to Mexico over Christmas.  One vivid memory (of many from that trip) was of ordering a yummy crispy cinnamon dessert.  When we were done eating it, we took the clay serving dishes outside and threw them against the brick wall along with everyone else.  I had to try a few Google searches to find evidence of my fuzzy memory, but found it here six paragraphs down.
I love Mexican Christmas traditions!  This is one reason we have Mexican food every year for Christmas Eve!

Dec 10, 2011

Max is 10!

Max turned 10 at the beginning of the month and since it's an even-age year, he got to have a friend party.  He invited his friends from church and school and we had a big crowd.

(Somehow I had convinced myself that sending out invites sorta late and it being a busy Dec. weekend would equal low turn-out.  I was wrong.)

We repeated a party used when he was 5. (before we had four kids and firmly declared the "only every other year" friend party rule.)

We made decorated Gingerbread houses.






Obviously, anything involving multiple bowls of candy and kids is going to be a big success.
It was popular with the five year olds, and it was popular with the ten year olds.

I imagine it would be popular at 12 and 14 too.
(Though at 16 you may have to add Spin-the-Candy-Cane to make it a real crowd pleaser.)

When the houses were done and hot chocolate with copious amounts of mini-marshmallows consumed, things started getting a little out of hand.
Noise and energy levels were reaching critically high levels.
So Doug was brought in to conduct the games.
We played "Fruit Basket"
and "On the Blanket, Off the Blanket"
Controlled chaos is much better than regular chaos.  But no quieter.
Last we opened presents.

A real crowd pleaser was the 2-liter of Diet Coke, Mentos, and handy Geyser Tube.  We went outside exploded it immediately.  (See YouTube for more Coke/Mentos action!)


Party tip:  Making things explode is always a big hit.

Lastly, we came in and watched a YouTube video of a Mentos and Coke propelled car.

At the end of the party, everyone got to take their decorated house home as their party favor.
I heard a few "BEST PARTY EVER"s so I think everyone had a good time.

Now if only I could motivate myself and Max to write the thank-you notes...!

Happy Birthday Max!
Here are 10 things I love about you:
10.  You have super cute dimples.
9.  You sing when you eat.
8.  You're extremely nice to little kids.
7.  You're very helpful to your Mommy.
6.  You love to learn new things
5.  You're creative
4.  You love to read!  (This makes me so happy...!)
3.  You're a great big brother and (usually) a good example to your little brothers!
2.  You've inherited your parents sarcastic sense of humor.  (Wait, do I love this???)
1.  You're just a darn good kid!

Dec 8, 2011

A Christmas Poem

by Sammy

I am waiting for...
  • Jesus to light the menorah
  • milk and cookies for Santa
  • red and green colors
  • Rudolph's red nose
Then I'll know Christmas is here!



We might have to discuss the first item on the list.  Curious about how that works.

Gotta love kids!

Dec 6, 2011

December in San Diego

This is what we pay the big bucks for.... 




Christmas trees for sale in hot air balloon weather.


Totally worth it.

Nov 30, 2011

One More Preparedness Post...


I mentioned how cool I thought Sam and Adrienne's wood burning stove was, right?

Sam cooking up some delicious Lemon Chicken
Well, it got me even more motivated to get my emergency "stuff" in order.  I'm using the closet under the stairs as my food storage/72-hour-kit storage.  (We have very little closet/storage space here.)  At the moment, everything is just shoved back there and it's all pretty inaccessible.  But at least I have most of the stuff I need.
For example,  I bought 6 of these backpacks:


One for each member of our family.  I want to transfer all our 72-hour stuff into these.  Some of our stuff is already in backpacks, but not rolling ones.  And some is in boxes.  I want everything uniform and clearly marked.  Also, these should give us more than enough room for everything including one backpack full of spare outfits.  (Should be pretty light--Gray can pull that one!)

I looked at quite a few different options before buying these ones.  They're not the highest quality, but that meant they weren't as expensive and they still got good reviews.

They're also not the cheapest option, but if I'm fleeing somewhere and my kids are schlepping along behind me dragging their 72 hour kit, I don't want anyone's handle to break in half or wheel to pop off.
(Once they're all packed and ready, I'll print and laminate some cards for each one with emergency contact info, etc.)

I bought a few more of these so we now have one for each boy:


(If the power is out, they can wear it around their neck to be hands-free, and also, it's harder to shine directly into my eyeballs.)  These come with new batteries in the plastic shell packaging, but we also have plenty of spare AA's.  (I think these take 3 AA's, but it might be AAA.)  Last time the power went out here, I found two water bottle lanyards for Max and Sam and hung them from those.

When I get it organized and cleaned up, I'll post some pictures.

I've also started buying #10 cans of grain, and we got our first water barrel!

Not this exact one, but same thing:

Adrienne had about 10 under her house.  But hey, baby steps to preparedness, right?!?
(Note:  My sister Laura told us not to put this directly on cement or concrete, but up on wood.  So I bought a 2x4, had it cut into thirds at Home Depot, and we put our barrel on top of the wood on the side of our house...and then filled it with the hose.  We did not treat the water with bleach because it's clean enough coming from the hose already.  And this isn't water for drinking.  We have bulk water bottles for that.)

Oh, and one of the reasons I'm writing this post:  To pass on this brilliant tip:
Tami read somewhere the other day that a family who lost power, took their solar garden lights from their yard, and used them to light their house.

I think this is a brilliant idea because;
1.  No fuel or batteries needed.
2.  No fire hazard from candles tipping over.  (A real concern when you're being rocked by multiple aftershocks after an earthquake.)
3.  They're being continually charged--and stored--right in your yard, ready to go!


And from the looks of it, you can buy a ten-pack for around 40 bucks.  Not too shabby.  (Plus, you'll have cool little lights in your yard!)

I thought that was two smart not to pass on to you.  Because even if I had these in my yard, I probably wouldn't have thought to bring them in if the power went off!

Now what about you?  What have you done to prepare for an emergency lately?  Any more brilliant tips for me?

Thanksgiving Recap - Part 2

Day 4/Friday:  Check out day.
Got off to a slightly tense start when Tami had a pregnancy scare. (Which started the night before)
No, not the kind where you’re scared you’re pregnant.  The kind where you’re pregnant and scared that something is wrong with the pregnancy.  Wes took her to Urgent Care and everything is okay for the time being.  The high altitude, dehydration and probably stress and overwork were causing some issues.  But there were some fervent prayers, a Priesthood blessing, and tears and the baby is okay and staying put.  Okay, now I’m crying again.  Moving on. 

This changed the plans a little and instead of going straight to Monterey, we went to Sam and Ad’s house for a driving break.  They have a super cool house on a beautiful piece of land in Nor Cal.  Plus, they’re into preparedness so it was cool to see their awesome crawl space filled with food and water and talk to Adrienne about how she has prepared her family for just about anything.  For one thing, they have a huge garden bursting with fresh food.  They also have this super cool wood burning stove.  It heats most of their downstairs PLUS you can COOK on it.   Tami and I were both staring at it enviously and thinking how much different life could have been after the earthquake if we’d had a wood burning stove for warmth and cooking purposes.

It's definitely going on my "dream house ideas" pin board.

After spending the afternoon and evening at Sam's, we hopped back in the car and headed to Monterey.
Wes just finished "school" in Monterey.  He learned Spanish at the Defense Language Institute to prepare him for his next assignment in Argentina.  They leave in January and we're a little (a lot) bit heart-broken that they wont be just up the (relative) street from us anymore.

We're hoping to go visit them there next year though, so that is a small consolation.  We also get to see them one more time on their way out of town so we're not too filled with despair.

Day 5/Saturday:  We took our time getting up and ready and headed to Monterey Bay Aquarium.  I've been here a few times before and have great memories of my visits.  I hope my kids will now too.
Camille trying out Max's wheel chair

Waiting for the shark show to start
Coincidently, I also ran into Claudia, my dad's wife, with a few of her kids and grandkids!  They live in Clovis but were in town to visit the aquarium too.
The new Sea Horse exhibit was amazing!

The Jelly Fish exhibit is always a crowd pleaser...

And now the boy/girl thing has official become "awkward".


I love Sea Turtles...

Baby Gray checking out the baby grays.

Gabe stayed in this position for quite awhile...
It was SUPER crowded, but we managed to have a great time regardless.  We put Tami in a wheel chair, Max in a wheel chair, (he twisted his ankle the night before and REALLY wanted a wheel chair--whether or not he needed it is debatable.) and Gray in a stroller and stormed our way through the whole place.  

It was a fun day and we were glad we braved the crowds.  (I don't know if Wes and Tami were since they have season passes and can go when it's not crowded...)

Day 6/Sunday:  Time for our fun to come to an end.  We had to drive home.  We ditched out on church so we could get on the road and drove all day getting home after 9p.m.

It was a great trip and we're so glad we did it!
Thank you Tami and Wes (and Sam and Adrienne) for your generosity in sharing your Timeshare/Holiday/Family Time/and Home.
You guys are the best!  We love you!!!

This year, I'm thankful for UBER FAMILY!!!